Salt-N-Pepa's song, " Let's Talk About Sex ," was a hit for a reason: Couples who discuss tricky topics, like what's going down in the bedroomare 10 times more likely to have a happy relationship than those who ignore difficult subjects, says Joseph Grenny, social scientist and co-author of Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High. Before you get beneath the sheets and maybe even afterexperts say you should have these sex conversations with your partner. Trust us, doing so will make the experience that much more enjoyable.
One of the more unexpected lessons the universe offered up last week is that the spectrum of male attitudes toward cunnilingus is anchored by DJ Khaled on one end, with the Rock holding down the other. Which is something sex researchers already knew well, at least when it comes to heterosexual relationships a study published last year in the Journal of Sex Research found that both men and women in same-sex couples have oral sex more frequently than those in opposite-sex couples, and that women, in particular, were more likely to enjoy it. According to the National Survey of Family Growth, a nationally representative survey of adults in the U.
There is nothing better than lying back, relaxing, and enjoying a long bout of cunnilingus. We need to be properly lubricated, and many studies and experts agree that an orgasm before penetration is ideal. Not to be dramatic, but oral sex is life.
Oral sex can hold a lot of weight in a relationship between two people. That can be a huge problem and leave you feeling like something is missing. Let Us Show You the Way. Domina Francoa writer, sex educator and coach who has been studying human sexuality for over 20 years, recently spoke with She Knows and let us in on some tips to work through this situation, because if you ask me, oral sex is like being put under a magic spell, and if you enjoy it, you should get it.
But it is heart connected talking that creates and sustains intimacy. This easily readable book, unveils the skill that can keep passion alive throughout the life of your relationship and renew the fun and satisfaction that gets lost behind the walls of silence. Light-hearted humor and concrete practical skills are interwoven with personal stories and real life lessons.
Where your intimate questions are answered by author and intimacy expert, Laura M. Question: I have read your book. It is very good.
Skip navigation! Story from Sex. But just as individuals age and change over time, the same goes for your sex life: What turned you on when you first made it Facebook official might not be the same for you now.
I've been married for five years, and gradually, my wife stopped performing oral sex on me. I feel like this was a bait and switch because she used to love doing this. I've asked her to do it, and she says she's not in the mood, or some other excuse. What should I do?
They had experienced the unique pleasure of giving pleasure in such an intimate way to each other. He was writing to me because this enjoyable aspect of their sex life which had always been part of their marriage was now conflicting with his conscience. My first instinct was to reply that it sounds like his pastor has a boring sex life and is trying to justify it Biblically!
By Tracey Cox. Show me a couple who together happily watched last night's brilliant Masters of Sex C4the new series about the world famous sex researchers Bill Masters and Virginia Johnson, and I'll show you a couple happy in the sack. If you're not having great sex, you're certainly not going to snuggle up on the sofa and watch a programme devoted to it. As a race, us Brits are great at the 'head in the sand' approach to problems and notoriously bad at communicating about sex.